It is understandable that you would want to get girlfriend back. After all, breaking up with a girlfriend is very hard for many guys to handle and you still have strong feelings for your girlfriend.

If you can’t stop thinking about her, then these 6 tips might just help you get your girl back.

Step 1- Get Distracted - Get her out of your mind

Now this might seemed crazy, after all, you want to get girlfriend back. But, think about this, have you ever got stuck with a problem and cannot come up with a solution. Then when you gave up, the answer suddenly came? It is the same here. You need to give your mind and emotions a break. Find something else to focus on, something to do that will keep your mind busy. Here are two suggestions that worked for me:

- Go watch a good stupid funny movie, or a all out action pack movie.

- Play games (especially the ones where you blow the stupid zombies up) or work on a puzzle.

Step 2 - Think about what went wrong

After you have cleared your mind and relaxed a bit, you need to take some time and think about what went wrong. For instance you should ask yourself:

- Is there another guy?

- Are there any big change(s) in her life?

- Are there things that you do which drive her crazy?

Now that you have the answer, you can now see if there is any possibility of getting her back. If she’s with another guy or the break-up was very bad, then you might not have a chance of getting her back.

So now that you know you may have a chance to get girlfriend back, lets move on.

Step 3- Change yourself

Once you’ve figured out what went wrong, you need to start making changes to your life. Most guys get dumped is due to a lack of attraction. So if you want to get girlfriend back, it is time to make subtle changes to yourself which demonstrates attractive qualities.

Now most women date other guys because these men provide excitement in their lives. Without you even knowing it, you probably became very boring with your ex-girlfriend.

To be attractive to your ex-girlfriend, you need change your personality so that it is attractive to her again. This includes self confidence, a sense of humor, determination, initiative, an interesting personality and be nice - have manners and act mature. If you’re able to develop these traits, then you’ll be attractive to EVERY women.

Step 4- Start dating other women

This may sound strange, but dating another woman is one of the best way to get girlfriend back. Now this has to do with female psychology, it’s too much to explain in this article. But a simple explanation is that girls are attracted to guys who are already taken by other women. By dating other women, you’ll make her jealous.

Step 5 - Become friends with her

After you’ve made changes to your life and you are dating other women, you should call your ex-girlfriend. Make sure that when you talk to her, get her hang out with you “as friends”. This means having a cup of coffee, catching up on news about your common friends and basically any normal things you do with your female friends.

When you go out with her, be completely casual. DO NOT try to convince her to get back with you. Just be confident and just treat her like another friend. Then talk about how life is in general for you right now. Mention that you’re actively dating other women, but don’t make a big deal out of it.

Step 6 - Get her attracted to you

Now that you are friends with your ex-girlfriend, you have a chance to show off your best qualities. Again, don’t try to get back with her, instead show her how much fun you can be, how much confidence you have.

At this stage, it is very important to be just friends. Treat her like any other girls. If you do this correctly, she’ll start to think that she’s missing out on a good thing. When this happens, she’ll go after you, not the other way around.

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